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Collaborative Divorce — Tampa
Allyson Hughes, Esq.Board Certified Marital & Family Law

There's a better way
to do this.
Most people just
don't know it exists.

Most divorces don't have to end up in a courtroom. Collaborative divorce gives each of you your own attorney — and keeps the decisions where they belong. With you.

Allyson Hughes, Tampa collaborative divorce attorney
Allyson Hughes, Esq.
Board Certified — Marital & Family Law
Fellow, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers
30+ Years Florida Family Law
AV Preeminent
Super Lawyers — Top Florida
AVVO 10 / 10
Past Chair, Florida Bar Family Law Section
Understanding your options

Not mediation. Not litigation. Something better than both.

Most people assume divorce means court. It doesn't have to. Here's how the three main paths actually compare.

Option 01
Mediation
Representation
Neither party has their own attorney in the room. A single neutral facilitates — but cannot advise either side.
Who decides
Both parties, but without legal advocates at the table. Agreements can be signed before you fully understand what you've given up.
Cost
Lower upfront — but without representation, you may agree to terms you'll later need to fight to change.
Privacy
Generally private. Financial details not filed publicly.
Best for
Simple situations with minimal assets and full agreement already in place.
Option 03
Litigation
Representation
Each party has an attorney — but the attorneys are adversaries, not collaborators.
Who decides
A judge — who has read your file for twenty minutes — makes the final call on your assets, children, and financial future.
Cost
Highest cost. Court preparation, formal discovery, motion practice, and hearings compound fees substantially.
Privacy
Court filings are public record. Financial disclosures, property, income, and personal matters are accessible to anyone.
Best for
Situations involving domestic violence, severe power imbalance, or a party who refuses honest disclosure.
Under Fla. Stat. § 61.55–61.58 — the Florida Collaborative Law Process Act — all communications, disclosures, and proceedings within the collaborative process are confidential and inadmissible in any subsequent court proceeding. That protection applies even if the process breaks down.
Why it works

Six reasons collaborative divorce is almost always the smarter choice.

01
Cost

No court preparation, no formal discovery, no motion practice, no hearings. Attorneys focus on negotiation. Neutral financial specialists are shared — not duplicated. The savings compared to litigation are real and often substantial.

02
Speed

You are not waiting on court dates or subject to docket backlogs. Collaborative cases move on your schedule, address issues as they arise, and close when both parties are ready — not when a court has an opening.

03
Control

In litigation, a judge decides your future. In collaborative divorce, those decisions are yours. Parenting plans, asset division, support structures — all of it can be tailored to your actual lives, not a one-size ruling from the bench.

04
Privacy

Court filings are public. Your income, your property, your financial disclosures — anyone can look. In collaborative divorce, none of that is filed publicly. What happens at the table stays there, protected by Florida law.

05
Built-in alignment

If the collaborative process breaks down and the case goes to litigation, both attorneys must withdraw. Neither can follow their client into court. That means everyone at the table — attorneys included — has a genuine stake in reaching resolution.

06
Children

The collaborative process is designed to keep children out of the courtroom and out of the conflict. Parenting plans are built around your children's actual lives — their schools, their schedules, their relationships — not a judge's standard template.

A newer option

Cooperative divorce —
same spirit, one key difference.

Collaborative divorce has a close relative called cooperative divorce. The process is nearly identical — each party retains their own attorney, everyone commits to negotiating in good faith, full financial disclosure is expected, and the goal is resolution without litigation.

The difference is one provision. In cooperative divorce, attorneys are not required to withdraw if the process fails. If negotiations break down and litigation becomes necessary, your attorney stays with you. You don't start over. You don't lose continuity.

For some clients, that matters. If there's uncertainty about whether the process will hold — a complicated financial picture, a history of conflict, one party who isn't fully committed — cooperative divorce offers the same cooperative framework with a smoother path forward if it's needed.

Allyson will assess your situation and tell you which structure fits.

Collaborative vs. Cooperative
Goal
Both aim to resolve without litigation. Good faith negotiation. Full disclosure. No courtroom.
Representation
Each party has their own attorney in both processes.
If it breaks down
Collaborative: both attorneys must withdraw. Cooperative: your attorney stays with you into litigation.
Best fit
Collaborative for most situations. Cooperative when continuity of counsel matters more than the withdrawal incentive.

How the
process
works.

Collaborative divorce follows a structured path — but one you control. Allyson walks you through each step so nothing catches you off guard.

01
First conversation

Allyson listens to your situation and gives you an honest assessment of whether collaborative or cooperative divorce is the right fit — and what to expect either way. No sugarcoating.

02
Participation agreement

Both parties and their attorneys sign a participation agreement committing to the process. This agreement establishes the ground rules: good faith, full disclosure, and no litigation threats. It also triggers the confidentiality protections under Florida law.

Fla. Stat. § 61.55–61.58
03
Four-way meetings

Both parties and their attorneys meet together to work through the issues — property division, support, parenting plans. Neutral professionals join as needed: forensic accountants, financial planners, child specialists, mental health facilitators. Everyone works for resolution, not conflict.

04
Agreement and filing

When terms are reached, the agreement is drafted and filed with the court. A judge signs off — typically without a contested hearing. The process ends with a settlement that both parties shaped, not one a judge imposed.

Honest assessment

When it works — and when it doesn't.

Good fit for collaborative or cooperative divorce
Most people going through a divorce.
  • Working professionals with income, savings, or retirement accounts
  • Business owners — trades, professional practices, small and mid-size companies
  • Couples with children who need a workable long-term parenting plan
  • Anyone with a home, equity, or real estate holdings
  • Couples who can communicate — even minimally — and want to stay out of court
  • Situations where privacy matters: income, assets, or personal circumstances you don't want in a public filing

If you have something to protect — a career, a business, a family — collaborative divorce is almost always worth exploring first.

When litigation may be necessary
Some situations require the structure of court.
  • A history of domestic violence or coercive control
  • A significant power imbalance that makes good-faith negotiation impossible
  • One party who refuses to disclose assets honestly
  • Situations requiring emergency protective orders or asset freezes

Allyson will tell you directly which situation you're in at the first meeting. If litigation is what your case requires, she's a seasoned trial attorney — former Co-Chair of the Florida Bar's Matrimonial Trial Advocacy program — and she'll be ready.

Rather than sugar-coating things, she gave me a realistic evaluation of my situation — which was not what I wanted to hear at that moment, but something I needed to. In court she was well-prepared and the judge respected her.

Brett  —  Hughes Law Group Client
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The goal isn't to fight.
It's to finish — on your terms.

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